Flotsam & Jetsam

There are chapters in my life that I wish I could rewrite - not to erase the pain, but to rewrite the silences. I suffered with serious bouts of depression throughout my daughter’s childhood. At times, it swallowed me whole. I separated from her mum when she was two, and from then on, I mostly saw her alternate weekends - every other Saturday felt like a glimpse of sunshine through thick grey cloud. I loved her fiercely, but I know there were times I felt unreachable, even to

People sometimes ask, “Why would someone go to therapy?”                                              It’s usually said with a hint of suspicion, or maybe fear - as if therapy is only for those who’ve reached breaking point. But the truth is, therapy isn’t just about crisis. It’s about curiosity. It’s about wanting to understand yourself better, to live more freely, and to stop running from the parts of you that keep tugging for attention. Sometimes people go to therapy becau