It usually starts small. A cheeky accumulator on a Saturday. A spin of the roulette wheel on your phone while you’re waiting for the kettle to boil. Maybe a flutter on the horses - nothing serious, just a bit of fun. But for some men, it doesn’t stay fun for long. The thrill becomes the fix. The win becomes the need. The next bet becomes the only thing that matters. And somewhere between the wins and the losses, a quiet kind of shame takes hold. The Hidden Epidemic We talk a lot about drugs...

People sometimes ask, “Why would someone go to therapy?”                                              It’s usually said with a hint of suspicion, or maybe fear - as if therapy is only for those who’ve reached breaking point. But the truth is, therapy isn’t just about crisis. It’s about curiosity. It’s about wanting to understand yourself better, to live more freely, and to stop running from the parts of you that keep tugging for attention. Sometimes people go to therapy because life feels...

One of the hardest lessons in becoming a counsellor has been recognising that self-compassion is not optional; it is essential. I...